Bloodship means anything to you?--part 1

I would be very confuse if your answer is NO.

Mother--Father--Children--what a bless full relationship that Allah has given down to any human in this world. Love and cherish each other,...I would always love to keep reading the book I bought in Japan in 2001 entitled "Birr-Ul Walidayn" the author (Ust. Yazid Jawas) really seems to have deep knowledge about what people almost forgot...yes, it is about being obedient and all, about love and share your care and shares to your parents.

Sorry, this is not it's meant to stepping on someone's toes...but lately I have been in a tremendously confusing situation. It's all like seeing someone you love running around, screaming and doing anonymous things in front of you though you have out loud said that it's juuuust not what they are suppose to do.

Mumbling?? yea, I am....can I just mumble in my own blog?

I know I sounded so sarcastic but life isn't always what a happy happy day all the time, you would dropped down to see how your family just can't hold their nafs (desire) to keep spreading love and care...

I am a very family and homey based person. I love kids and can't live without them and my dearest soul mate. Despite I do love my father and mother too...can't imagine my life without their existence...I share my thoughts, lip service and try to be an extra hand for them at anytime, blah blah blah...would you call what I'm doing as "Cari Muka"? in English western use the term "kissing someone's butt" -- sorry I don't know how to say this in polite English since the meaning is nothing but to bash someone's out-- but do let me know if anyone of you know it, I will edit my post.

Let me tell you what is "Cari Muka"....
I would split this word into two definitions;
--Cari Muka 1: an action that presents in front of other people that shows a love or care affection with an expectation in a short moment.
--Cari Muka 2: an action that presents in front of other people that shows a love or care affection with-out any expectation in a long-term expect nothing but to achieve a better quality relationship.

Some people I realize can't see the difference between this two...
Being obedient to your parents, being cheerful and a hand for your parents is not something "not cool". To do so is to show how much you want them to know that you have honor them and appreciate their effort who have brought you up from nothing to how you are right now. Lip service is not to bluff, but to mingle with their heart and mind, giving them hopes that there will be you at the end of their world....

Being someone that shows Birr (Obedience) to your parents will actually brings Rahmah (love) from Allah, brings Rizky (wealth), and a light wing to your heart. Your children will be blessed with the same thought as you do, won't you like to see your children hold your hand smiling at you when you starts to shaking just to walk down a meter far? --- I love what John F. Kennedy said "don't ask what your country can do for you, but ask yourself what you can do for your country" it ask you to look at ourself before others ---

Some of you who read this might think that I am too arrogant to judge others people that I am the only one doing the right thing...well...to tell you the truth, NO ONE IS PERFECT. So do I.

This thinking coming up for some reason, this is the process in my mind that grows and I would say that this is a step forward for me to think more. I really hope that you don't have to go through what I had. The key is just to understand your role, Allah creates this world with regulation and rules. Allah knows how things needs to be operated --- won't you think the company who made the BMW knows how to operate the thing? --- just read the manual and do the best we can...human go through processes and it's good, Allah will count every effort for you to go to heaven not the result. And don't  you feel relieve to know that one way to go is to do Birr-ul Walidayn?

to be continued....